In grief and change, God is planting renewal. Pastoral planning calls us to discover abundant life, rooted in faith, hope and bold trust.
September Planning Update: In grief, we remember. In planning, we trust. In faith, we move forward.
Tollefson: Grief is not a one-size-fits-all deal
Grief comes in many forms, but Christ meets us in them all — offering comfort, strength, and healing when we feel most broken.
Deacon Wocken: Church offers treasury of wisdom to console hearts
Grief touches every heart — but faith transforms sorrow into sacred strength. In our darkest moments, Christ meets us, consoles us, and leads us toward hope.
Father Crane: Grief has a place
In times of unavoidable grief and loss, the Church establishes good, sensitive rules and processes for handling these delicate, powerful moments.
Father Wiechmann: The faith that held us
“In a moment of unimaginable grief, faith carried us. Even in loss, God was present — holding every tear, every doubt, and transforming pain into something sacred.”
Bishop Neary: We do not grieve as people without hope
Grief shakes us, but it doesn’t define us. In the silence, God speaks. In sorrow, Christ weeps with us. And through faith, healing begins.
How our actions can help us remember those who have died
In some way, the person you loved will be a model. If they were specially kind to strangers, or to awkward people, or to people who made being friends with them difficult, you can do that, too. If they spoke kindly of others in a way that led more critical people to speak kindly, too, you can work at speaking kindly.
How to help a grieving friend
Some people know instinctively how to help a grieving person. But for most of us, dealing with someone else’s grief is a little more uncomfortable.

























